Kurt Russell helping Kevin Costner find love in Aspen has become a passionate mission for longtime friends Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn, who hope to introduce Costner to someone special among their distinguished Aspen, Colorado social circle. The couple’s efforts highlight their enduring loyalty to Costner and their belief that he deserves companionship as he continues his life post-divorce.
Longtime Friendship Born Out of Rivalry
Kurt Russell, Goldie Hawn, and Kevin Costner share a friendship that stretches back over two decades, though it was not always so amicable. In the 1990s, the two actors were known for their fierce competition over film roles, but by the end of that decade, they found common ground, leading to a partnership both on and off the screen. Over time, their relationship has deepened, characterized by mutual respect and occasional professional rivalry.
“Kurt and Goldie have been loyal friends of Kevin’s for more than twenty years. It wasn’t always that way: in the ’90s, Kevin and Kurt were fierce competitors, but at some point, at the end of that decade, Kurt and Kevin got on the same page, started talking about working together, and the friendship has persisted to this day,”
—insider
Although their professional rivalry has occasionally resurfaced—such as when Kevin Costner was originally cast in Quentin Tarantino’s “Django Unchained” as Ace Woody, a role later filled by Kurt Russell and eventually played by Walton Goggins—the respect they have for each other remains steadfast.
“Kurt and Goldie are absolutely Kevin loyalists and they respect the hell out of each other, even though Kurt and Kevin have continued to jostle for roles here and there,”
—insider
A Mission to See Kevin Costner Find Love
The couple’s latest endeavor involves playing matchmaker for Costner in Aspen, where all three are close friends as well as neighbors. While Russell and Hawn would love to see Costner settle down with someone from their exclusive Aspen circle, matching him up has proved challenging due to his busy career and private nature.

“Nothing would make Kurt and Goldie happier than to set Kevin up with one of their Aspen friends, but the problem is that Kevin is a massive workaholic and perfectionist who kind of hates socializing and partying just for the sake of it,”
—insider
Their intention stems from genuine care for Costner, as they, like many in his life, wish for him to find happiness in a new relationship. Their longstanding support illustrates the close-knit nature of both their friendship and their Aspen community.
“Kurt and Goldie are like everybody in Kevin’s life – they want him to find love and if they can help out in that department, they’re gonna try!”
—insider
Life Among Neighbors in Aspen
Kurt, Goldie, and Kevin have built deeper connections through their adjacent homes in Colorado’s luxurious mountain town. Their family roots there are strong; Goldie’s son Oliver Hudson has described their Aspen residence as filled with memories and history. The homes themselves reflect decades of shared experiences in the community.
“It’s a bit of a time capsule. Those curtains that you see are like 30 years old, you know what I mean? Mom refuses to update, which kind of is great,”
—Oliver Hudson
“Mom built this house first and then my stepdad Kurt built the other house. So we lived here in 1985 for two years.”
—Oliver Hudson
Costner, meanwhile, has owned the expansive Dunbar Ranch on the outskirts of Aspen since 2000. The 160-acre property features three homes, lakes, and a river, providing a scenic retreat for his family. Costner once spoke about the special moments spent there with his children Cayden, Hayes, and Grace while married to Christine Baumgartner.
“It’s just beautiful, with three lakes and a river running through it,”
—Kevin Costner
“My whole family spends some of our best times there.”
—Kevin Costner
From Family Life to New Beginnings
Costner’s marriage with Christine Baumgartner ended in 2023, with the divorce finalized the following year. Following the split, he offered the Dunbar Ranch as a luxury rental, promoting it as an exclusive and rare opportunity in Aspen.
“the ultimate luxury retreat only minutes from downtown Aspen, Colorado.”
“one of the most rare estate rental homes on the market today,”
“three exquisite residences offer stunning and comfortable spaces for you and your family to experience the true Colorado lifestyle, available individually or together.”
Addressing Romance Rumors After His Divorce
After separating from Baumgartner, Costner was briefly linked to singer Jewel, following their friendly public interactions. However, Costner openly denied any romantic involvement, clarifying the nature of their relationship.
“Jewel and I are friends. We’ve never gone out ever,”
—Kevin Costner
“She’s special, and I don’t want these rumors to ruin our friendship because that’s what we have. She’s special to me.”
—Kevin Costner
“She’s beautiful and smart enough for all those things. It just has never happened for us,”
—Kevin Costner
“She’s everything you might think, but it just hasn’t happened.”
—Kevin Costner
“We don’t have a romance and we’ve not dated.”
—Kevin Costner
What Lies Ahead for Kevin Costner in Aspen?
With the support of Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn, Kevin Costner’s prospects for renewed happiness remain in the spotlight in Aspen’s close-knit social scene. Whether Costner will open his heart to a new relationship with Russell and Hawn’s matchmaking help is uncertain, especially given his focus on work and private nature. Still, their dedication signals the depth of their friendship and their hope for his personal fulfillment as he navigates a new chapter of life in Colorado’s mountain paradise.