Margot Robbie husband Tom Ackerley has managed to keep a remarkably private profile despite his close ties to Hollywood through his famous wife and their shared business ventures. The couple, who met over nine years ago and married in 2016, have maintained a steady, supportive relationship away from the public eye. Their connection began on a movie set and evolved into a partnership that extends beyond romance into both family and the film industry.
Early Beginnings: From Harry Potter Extra to Film Industry Professional
Tom Ackerley hails from Surrey, England, and his career in film started at a very young age when he appeared as an extra in the first three Harry Potter films, including a role in
“Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban.”
His small background roles placed him in scenes with memorable characters like Draco Malfoy. Margot Robbie, a well-known fan of the Harry Potter franchise, once joked about how she might have married Tom sooner if she had known of his early connection to the series.
He was an extra when he was a little kid—he was one of the Slytherin extras when Draco pushes some kids out of the way to see Buckbeak in the third book. He pushes my husband out of the way,
Margot Robbie
Tom’s Steady Climb in Showbiz Behind the Scenes
Tom’s involvement in the entertainment industry spans several years, mainly in behind-the-scenes roles. He has built a solid resume as an assistant director and producer, contributing to high-profile titles such as “The Brothers Grimsby,” “Promising Young Woman,” and “Macbeth” (2015). His experience also includes crew work on notable films like “Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy,” “Rush,” and “War Horse.” This extensive background highlights his competence and dedication within the film world, underscoring his important role off-camera.
How Tom and Margot’s Relationship Began on a Film Set
The pair’s relationship started in the film industry’s close-knit environment. After Margot’s breakout role opposite Leonardo DiCaprio in “The Wolf of Wall Street,” the two met on the set of “Suite Française,” where Tom served as a third assistant director. Their bond deepened within the tight-knit cast and crew, leading them to move in together with other team members in London’s Clapham area.
We were like, ‘Wouldn’t it be funny if we all lived together?’ Someone said, ‘But you don’t live in London,’ and I said, ‘I don’t live anywhere. I’ll move.’ Three days later, we signed a lease in Clapham,
Margot Robbie
This close living arrangement allowed their friendship to blossom into romance, eventually culminating in their December 2016 wedding, marking the start of a well-established partnership.
A Supportive Husband and Steady Presence
Despite Margot’s busy career and the pressure of high-profile roles, Tom has been a reliable pillar of support. Margot has openly shared how he helps her overcome moments of self-doubt, especially before starting a new project. His grounding presence reassures her whenever anxiety threatens to take over, proving to be an essential part of her creative process and personal life.
Even though Harley is a character I have played before, I still got scared before shooting because I’m always nervous to start any job. I have this complete crisis of faith and think, ‘Oh my gosh, I’m not even good at acting and I can’t do this.’ Every time I do a movie, I turn to my husband and I’m like, ‘I don’t think I can do this.’ He says something like, ‘You do this every time. You’ll be fine.’
Margot Robbie
Partners in Business: Co-Founding LuckyChap Entertainment
Long before tying the knot, Tom and Margot joined forces professionally by co-founding LuckyChap Entertainment in 2014, alongside long-time friends Josey McNamara and Sophia Kerr. The idea for the production company reportedly sparked during a night out following the London premiere of “The Wolf of Wall Street.” Since then, the company has flourished, producing critical successes such as “I, Tonya,” which earned Margot an Oscar nomination for Best Actress.
We started our production company with our best friends and it continues to be a wonderful group dynamic. We all really work well together. I feel very lucky,
Margot Robbie
The partnership between Tom and Margot within LuckyChap has enabled them to bring numerous notable films to life, including “Promising Young Woman,” “Barbie,” “Saltburn,” and most recently, “Wuthering Heights,” highlighting their influence both on and off the screen.
Choosing Work Over Honeymoon: Prioritizing Their Careers Together
After their wedding in December 2016, the couple made the unconventional decision to postpone their honeymoon in favor of diving right into work. They immediately began production on the movie “I, Tonya,” often reminiscing about the sacrifices they made for their careers, even joking about their longing for a vacation during cold days in Atlanta.
We did this film instead of our honeymoon. There were times we were sitting in a car parked in Atlanta, freezing cold, being like, ‘We should be on a beach right now. We should be on a honeymoon. What are we doing?!’ Following our dream,
Margot Robbie
Thankfully, after completing the film, they found time to take a well-earned break and enjoy their honeymoon in Tahiti, experiencing some balance amid their hectic schedules.
We did it after we finished shooting. It was great,
Margot Robbie
Managing a Long-Distance Relationship While Building a Life
In the early years of their relationship, Margot and Tom maintained a long-distance connection while she worked on international projects and he remained based in London. Margot has highlighted the importance of staying close despite distances, following a “three-week rule” to avoid losing connection and trust amid their busy lives.
The most helpful thing I’ve learned from other couples in this industry is that you don’t go more than three weeks without seeing each other,
Margot Robbie
Being in a long-distance relationship can be really hard when you don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. It can mess with your head, so the three-week rule is key.
Margot Robbie
The couple was first seen publicly together at a New York Rangers game in February 2015, signaling their ability to blend personal moments with their demanding professional lives.
Margot’s Early Feelings: A Romance That Evolved Slowly
Though Margot Robbie is among Hollywood’s most prominent stars, she and Tom kept their romance discreet for a long time. The two didn’t appear on the red carpet together until almost a year after their wedding. In a rare glimpse into the early stages of their relationship, Margot admitted that she harbored feelings for Tom long before they officially started dating.
I was the ultimate single gal. The idea of relationships made me want to vomit. And then this crept up on me. We were friends for so long. I was always in love with him, but I thought, ‘Oh, he would never love me back. Don’t make it weird, Margot. Don’t be stupid and tell him that you like him.’
Margot Robbie
And then it happened and I was like, ‘Of course we’re together. This makes so much sense, the way nothing has ever made sense before.’
Margot Robbie
Welcoming Parenthood: A New Chapter for Tom and Margot
In October 2024, the couple expanded their family by welcoming their first child. Although they have kept details about their baby’s name and photographs private, this milestone marks a new chapter in their life together, deepening their bond beyond career and business.
Margot Robbie husband Tom’s journey from a background actor in England to a key figure behind the scenes in Hollywood, and eventually a partner in life and work, highlights a story of steady growth, dedication, and shared ambitions. Their ability to balance high-profile careers with a grounded family life continues to capture widespread admiration and interest, revealing them as one of the industry’s most enduring couples.
